Husband
and wife Berni, 49 and Tina, 40, always knew they wanted a big family, but
struggled for six years to get pregnant. In 2010, the couple had their first
daughter, Luzia, via in vitro fertilization. In 2012, they had Maria, born via
surrogacy. After a short period, they embarked on another IVF attempt,
transferring embryos to both Tina and the surrogate they'd used before, but
neither took.
Eventually,
the couple found their way to Leticia, a birth doula with four children of her
own who had signed up with a surrogacy agency as a way of giving back, she has explained. Because surrogacy is illegal in Austria, where they live, Tina and Berni
had their embryos stored in a clinic in California, where Leticia underwent a
transfer. Several weeks later, she found out she was pregnant -- with twins.
(Though surrogacy is illegal in Austria, the couple has had no legal problems after the twins' birth, Tina said.)
Here, in her
own words, Tina describes the birth experience, which was captured by Austin,
Texas birth and breastfeeding photographer Leilani Rogers as a surprise arranged by Leticia,
the surrogate mother, for the intended parents.
"I've always, even as a child,
wished to have many children. We often joked and said at least one football
team. But life goes how life goes -- first you study and build a career, and
many things seem to be much more important, so you believe you still have
enough time to have children."
"There were many people in the
room, but also so much love, support, help, understanding, and so many
emotions."
"The whole clinic stuff was
incredibly great. I've never experienced such a team, or such a wonderful
doctor. We call him our hero."
"We are so thankful that we were
able to share these extraordinary moments with our babies, our surrogate mum --
everyone. You do not think or feel in moments. The experience is without time."
"The emotions, we cannot
describe with words -- you can see them in the pictures. It is pure love, pure
hope and praying, pure adoring and wondering."
"We made a birth plan, together
with our surrogate mum, which detailed many things. The most important was that
we would cut the cords if possible, and that we would bond as soon as possible
with the babies via skin-to-skin."
"Surrogacy is still illegal in
Austria, so it is a bureaucratic challenge to manage the whole process, but it
is nothing as
soon as you hold your babies in your arms."
"We stayed in the U.S. for four
weeks –- we wanted to enjoy our time together and to give the babies as much
time as possible before going on their exhausting journey home. My parents
visited and helped us for two weeks, and it was marvelous, unforgettable time
for our family."
"Livia and Benedikt [a boy and a
girl] are 6 weeks now. They are growing fantastically, and doing great. We say
thank you to all who helped us and accompanied us on our path -- thank you to
Leticia, thank you to Jamie [the first surrogate mother], thank you to everyone
who helped make us a family."
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