Two senior judges
have allowed a 60-year-old woman to continue to fight an extraordinary legal
battle that may allow her to give birth to her dead daughter’s baby.
The woman, who
would be at least 61 by the time the child is conceived, has been given the
right to appeal against a High Court decision that there was not enough
evidence to suggest that the daughter would have wanted her mother to give
birth to the baby.
If she and her 59-year-old husband are granted permission to use the frozen eggs, which are stored in a London clinic, it is believed that it will be the first time in the world that a grandmother would give birth to her dead child’s baby.
The couple’s daughter, who cannot be named for legal reasons and was referred to as ‘AM’ in court proceedings, died aged 28 in 2011 but had frozen her eggs five years previously when she was diagnosed with bowel cancer.
Her parents,
referred to as Mr and Mrs M, say their daughter wanted her mother to carry a
child in the event that she did not survive. However, the Human Fertilisation
and Embryology Authority (HFEA) refused to release the eggs because she had not
provided full written permission.
In their judgment Lord Justice Treacy and Lord Justice Floyd both admitted they had been ‘doubtful’ that the mother would have any prospect of winning the case but said they were swayed following ‘clear and persuasive’ arguments from the family’s barrister.
In previous hearings, it was claimed that AM had told her mother on her death bed: ‘I want you to carry my babies. I want you and dad to bring them up. They will be safe with you. I could not have had better parents.’
Mrs M said her
daughter had ‘wanted her genes to be carried forward after her death’ and had
regarded the eggs as ‘living entities in limbo waiting to be born’.
The matter came to
court because of the HFEA’s insistence on needing written permission from the
daughter.
In a High Court
hearing last year Mr Justice Ouseley was told that AM, who was single at the
time of her death, would have been ‘devastated’ if she had known the eggs would
never be used but he supported the HFEA’s decision, adding that it was not in
breach of the family’s human rights.
The judge said: ‘I
must dismiss this claim, though I do so conscious of the additional distress
which this will bring to the claimants, whose aim has been to honour their
daughter’s dying wish for something of her to live on after her untimely
death.’
The court heard
that the family’s plan had been to take AM’s eggs to a treatment centre in New
York so that they could be fertilised using sperm from a donor and implanted
into Mrs M at a cost of £60,000.
An HFEA spokesman
said: ‘We understand why Mr and Mrs M would wish to carry out what they see as
their daughter’s wish.
‘However, we
considered their application on three separate occasions, concluding each time
that the consent given did not satisfy the requirements of the law. Our
decisions were then reviewed by a High Court judge, who supported our view.
‘We will read
today’s decision to grant appeal carefully. Out of respect for Mrs M and her
family, and for the ongoing legal process, it would be inappropriate for us to
comment further at this time.’
Ladies, please do never ever beat yourself up about the egg freezing, etc.... being a single mom is really hard and without a lot of money and/or support, it's normal to not jump to do this before you are settled at least in some of those areas, especially financially. Unfortunately that takes time, our nemesis.... Also, recall that egg freezing wasn't fda approved until 2012 and was not publicized or even available at most clinics until 2012-2013 and onward....and you were embarking your ivf around that time. Less than 500 women in the whole country did egg freezing around 2012. Women have gotten bad health care and subpar information on all sorts of things for centuries and this fertility area (checking FSH/AFC/age/DOR etc) is no exception really. It's different for the next generation of women who have more technology available to them but that is just how it is. Try to make your own happy path in life and move forward towards healing so that the anger goes away. there is a way forward I am sure, and I know you will find your way. good luck!!
ReplyDeleteOh God, that's too tough even to think about!!
ReplyDeleteThe situation is enormously complicated. From one side I support this right. This way the woman gets the chance of her daughter's 'continuation' using her frozen eggs for ivf. On the other way, the ethical and moral side of the question. Do we actually have this right to rule?? And if it was meant for her to be childless or having just one when she was alive, so maybe her mother would better stop with the idea...Really can't make my mind over it. It's too weird for me..