There is a great amount of information concerning parenthood before and after
childbirth. One mother has shared her own experience and wise recommendations
with our readers:
1.
Becoming
a lovely parent you will have to go through fire and water but at the same time
it will be a lot of wonderful things in your life after child’s birth. Every
day you will be able to see different interesting changes in your child. Of
course it will be very difficult during the first period. Calm down, as you
have to take care of yourself and your baby because he loves you very much and
needs you beautiful and happy.
2.
Be
ready for the fact that your body will not be in good form after childbirth. Swellings,
lots of stretch marks will be seen on your body, your form will change. But
remember, you gave birth to a new little person. Now you must eat well, rest,
dedicate time to yourself and have the ear of people who say that you are beautiful;
3.
Your
child is not like all others kids. Each of us is unique. Your baby is no
exception. Only you and your spouse know better how to treat your own child.
The baby will not behave as it is written and described in various smart books,
and it's perfect! The best you can do in this situation is to postpone all the
literature and get to know own baby. What does he like? What makes him laugh? How
he fall asleep? What sound makes baby when he is hungry and so on. You do not
need to follow certain abstract rules. Listen to your own heart and baby.
4.
Pregnancy
and child bearing is rather difficult and painful process. But don’t be afraid.
It is called a miracle! Do not be afraid of difficulties, all parents have to
go through them.
5.
Talking
about children's poop and other troubles...Children's faeces, unpleasant smell
and other baby's surprises are natural and normal and everything is much easier
than you think. You will become accustomed to all these things and cope with them
easily.
6.
Master
the art of graceful perception of unwanted advices. All parents like to talk
about their children and everyone has own opinion, therefore wants to share it
with others. But if something works well concerning some children it doesn’t mean
that it works concerning all! You can thank for people’ advisers and continue
to act in your way. Because only you
know what is best for your child.
7.
Time
to become flexible in all senses of this word! During the first year of child’s
life mother can sleep with him. It can be lack of sleep, intimate relationship
with husband and so on and so forth. But do not despair: that's okay. Do not worry;
everything will be fine in time.
8.
The
best thing you can present your child… No, it is not a new expansive toy or
something like that. All the best you can give him is lovely family. Family
supports you at any moment when you are tired or angry. You love your baby and
take care of him when you tired and hungry. Only family 100% understand that
you are an imperfect man who sometimes makes mistakes but they will always love
you and support.
9.
You
must support each other. Childrearing is the most difficult process you have
ever known. You can be angry and roily due to the difficulties and lack of
sleep or you can love each other enjoying your baby. You get to choose!
10. Success lies in the desire to grow. Now you don’t know
everything. Gather the crumbs of wisdom and learn from own mistakes. Be humble
and stay open to everything new. If you know how to do better - act. Become a
better parent tomorrow than you were today. Try and do not be afraid in the
case of fail. Live every moment and love your cute baby.
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